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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]12:05 again. If it's not enough to just do the right thing, know this: if you have an affair, it will not end well, no matter how it goes. If one of you falls for the other, but it's not reciprocated - no good. If either of your spouses find out - no good. If you fall in love with each other and decide to divorce your respective spouses, you will always have guilt, and probably the scorn of more than a few people. There is no positive outcome from an affair, ultimately.

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This. Exactly. You don't mention children, but if you have children, they will find out sooner or later and you will lose their respect for the rest of your life. And are you ready for friends, family, co-workers, etc. to whisper behind your back until the end of time that you are cheater? For scandal to follow you like a cloud? Many friends will have nothing to do with you once they know. 
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I won't argue that affairs are destructive but I think you overestimate how much other people will care.  No one will whisper behind your back until the end of time. People are way too focused on their own lives to care about what you did or didn't do. Nothing will follow you like a cloud and your friends won't care.  We just aren't that important to anyone else.

[b]Also, if I found out either of my parents cheated, it wouldn't change how I feel about them in the slightest[/b]. [/quote]

Sorry but I find this impossible to believe. And speaking from experience, I can tell you friends will be much less likely to call you to do things with them. They will not look at you the same way and many won't want to associate with you[/quote]

NP. Your assumptions are not true. People do not care about affairs.[/quote]

You certainly don’t speak for everyone, just you and your liar friends.[/quote]

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