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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][vimeo][/vimeo][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, she is insecure as evidenced by her reaction. You just hit a nerve. [/quote]

You mean OP is.[/quote]

No, if she weren’t insecure, she would have laughed it off. OP was being playful and she took it seriously. It wasn’t a big deal, she made it a big deal. [/quote]

This 100%.  [/quote]

This. She's insecure about her like of celebrity culture. [b]She thinks people think she's an airhead and maybe someone told her that  in the past. .   She was projecting.  . You weren't being mean OP, you were teasing like a guy.  She's not being petty just sensitive[/b].

I'm sure you have things you are sensitive about.

Ideally the conversation would have gone with her saying something like" I know . 
You were just joking, but I'm sensitive about this I'd appreciate it if you didn't joke about it"

And you could have.responded with something like" I'm sorry it wasn't my intention to hurt your feelings and now that I know I won't tease you about it again."

Moving forward if you think of moving forward with her or others you need to consider your senses of humor it's important to partners to match.none thing that made me know my guy was my guy  is we've got the same style of humor.

It's also important to give grace, even when we are hurt not to assume the worst of the other.    And not turn things into who is right or who is wrong but how can we find a way to move forward as a team and sometimes that means  falling on your own sword.

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Eh, disagree. If I tell someone I’m reading the news, and they’re like “Oh, like what, People magazine? National Enquirer?” then that’s asshole behavior. And yes, OP was implying that the woman is dumb, and vapid. I’m confused that he thought that would go over well with her.[/quote]

Perhaps she is.[/quote]

If so, then they’re probably a good match, since OP asked her if she just finished watching Star magazine.[/quote]

Hahaha [/quote]

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