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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If I were messy, I would go back to work because I would be absolutely mortified to be a SAHM and have a messy house. [/quote]

Even if your husband made 600K? [/quote]

My husband does make $600k (more.) He would be mortified to invite friends and family into a constantly messy house. House cleaners don’t make you be not messy. You still have to declutter and put things away.

They way some of you talk about messiness like it’s a trait that can’t be changed - do something about it![/quote]

You didn't actually answer my question, which was *if* you were messy would you go get a job just so you would be less embarrassed. Seems super weird to me.

House cleaners make a messy person's home less messy because somebody coming over to clean motivates you to put things where they go, because they can't clean unless things are put away. Same thing with inviting people over. Before the pandemic I would be sure to have people over less a month in part to motivate myself to clean up.

Messiness isn't a character flaw like people seem to think it is. [/quote]

It’s fixable. You choose not to and make excuses. Especially since you don’t work![/quote]

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