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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP - it’s actually quite simple, hire a nanny and a maid and go back to work. Get a weekend babysitter once a month. Literally that’s all you have to do.

I make three times as much as my husband and while he contributes, he hates to clean. I have a maid. It’s okay.

And stop looking for validation from your husband. He’s not going to give it. Just do what YOU want to do and eff it.[/quote]

I agree with this poster. I think you should hire more help, then decide whether you want to go back to work or not. You have enough money that you could be heavily involved in a hobby, or get into charitable giving. Just find something you enjoy to do with your time. Your husband is not there to make you happy. That comes from within. I have been a SAH mom and then worked part time on a 10th of your income. Very few people in this world are blessed with the kind of financial freedom you have. Quit worrying about what other people think, the gender dynamics in your marriage, etc. Just enjoy your life.[/quote]

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