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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I think that you have disrespected yourself.  Adults should know their limits.  There is something off in a person who would allow themselves to get that out of control.  Would you be upset if she got that drunk but didn't poop on your floor?  If not, you should be.  It's not healthy for anyone to be friends with someone who is that out of control.

You need to tell her that you didn't appreciate that she let herself become that intoxicated and hope that she will realize that she needs to take better care of herself and do some serious thinking about her binge drinking.  Be honest about the fact that you had to clean up her poop but don't make it about that only.  The poop on the floor is the proof that she has hit a really low point in her life...it is really pathetic.  Make sure she realizes that she needs to get a handle on her alcohol issues in general because this should be a big wake-up call.

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How did OP disrespect herself, explain that to me?[/quote]

I thought I did but I will try again.  People with high self esteem and self respect usually don't associate with or contemplate continuing a relationship with someone who is this much of a hot mess.  If she respected herself she would not have friends like that to start with.  Someone who will drink to the point of defecating all over the place is not "right" in the head in general.  I just think the OP should consider that she's better than that and deserves to have people in her life that won't cause this kind of turmoil.[/quote]

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