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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How much money are we talking here? My DH makes 130-160K depending on the year and I could easily be a SAHM still afford 1st mortgage + rent and traveling several times per year. My coworker makes 100K and has a SAHW. He doesn't travel, but owns a house. So are y'all really complaining about how much your husband makes or making sacrifices (i.e. Starbucks, haircuts, travel) to stay at home?[/quote] My DH makes $60K.[/quote] I make what the first poster's DH makes $145k and I am [i]not[/i] the primary breadwinner. DH makes much more than me--but I need to work. I never want the weight of the financial burden on one person. Plus_ I WAH with lots of flexibility. It's good to know I could support myself and my kids if anything happened to DH or our relationship. Yes- we do have tons of every type of insurance out there. I think of my job as a contingency. Plus-- having a J-O-B is a great excuse for me to get out of some of the domestic chores I can't stand. Anytime--he starts freaking about something I can say 'hey-- I have a job too:)". Cleaning lady is now justifiable.[/quote] What kind of work do you do that allows you to WAH making that much money, if you don't mind my asking? [/quote]
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