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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]With my mom there was definitely what is called "love bombing" and discard. When she adored the surrogate daughter she showered her with compliments and would give expensive gifts or checks for special occasions. Then something happens and discards like trash. For one it had nothing to do with her, it had to do with something her husband did. I actually knew the young woman ( a peer) and she was so hurt. It's like...that's how mom operates. Welcome to my world. I find my mom's charm to phony and fake, but some of these not even young ladies (I am middle age) fall for it and think she is just sooooooo amazing. I think she purposely preys upon people anxious and insecure who don't have a lot of close friendships. It's like grooming, but it's not like she abuses them, she just uses them to fill a need she has for admiration and attention.[/quote] Narcissistic supply[/quote]
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