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Reply to "I have a real life “The Notebook” situation on my hands and I have no clue who to choose. "
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[quote=Anonymous]You want “boring” when it comes to marriage. And I mean boring in the sense of calm. You need to get into individual therapy to discover if you find him boring because there isn’t drama or if you just aren’t compatible. My marriage is calm, but I don’t consider it boring. DH and I love just hanging out together. But life does get boring once you aren’t dating, in general. It’s less about what you are going to do on the weekends and more about laundry and grocery shopping. Ask yourself, who would you rather go grocery shopping with? Also life gets harder and more complicated as you get older. You want a boring calm relationship to be your steady center when life becomes a raging storm. Some more questions to ask yourself: If you were paralyzed, is this the guy you would trust taking care of you and to keep the rest of life running? If you died, would you trust this guy to raise your child and teach them the morals you want them to know? [/quote]
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