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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The girlfriend wins.  Most of the “other women” I’ve known like the freedom while being the one he treats as special.  The mistress isn’t being cheated on - the wife is.  The husband never broke his vows to his mistress - he broke them to his wife.  The wife still has to watch him clip his toenails, stink up the bathroom, watch him watch TV, etc.  The girlfriend gets dinners out and an attentive lover.

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The girlfriend is wasting her life in a dead end relationship instead of finding someone to love her full time.[/quote]

Not PP but I would rather be the girlfriend than the wife in this situation.[/quote]

But affairs are never that glamorous in real life.  Only for the top execs.  Most men are not taking the women out in public, no dinner, no overnights because they will get caught.  And, they aren't purchasing expensive gifts, or much of anything because their spouses would notice.

The real deal is what is talked about on reddit and medium---a bunch of losers meeting up in the back of cars or cheap hotels or the woman's house when the husband is at work.

I know people in affairs who never even at out at dinner any night, ever.   They were afraid to be seen getting coffee or lunch together.

A lot of women have a gold-digging, sugar baby high flier fantasy that is so far removed with how mundane and pathetic cheating is in the DMV.[/quote]

Speaks volumes about the quality of the region’s marriages.[/quote]

You think this is confined to a region?  This happens all over.  Ever heard of 'Jerry Springer'--it's in low income, high income, cities and rural areas.  [/quote]

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