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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Well yes, I do find it stressful to care for a SFH, two young children and all of their needs and school stuff and sports, on top of working and maintaining a marriage and my own health and everything.  That is stressful, for sure.  But cooking and cleaning for one single adult who is me, would not be stressful at all!  It would be downright pleasant because I could cook what I want and not have to cater to anyone else's tastes, and I wouldn't have to do any of the other things parents have to do for their children so I would have plenty of time.  Can you really not see a difference there?  You seem extremely oblivious and that is the red flag.[/quote]

Maybe you've been married too long or you're just longing for his life, but I know plenty single people who hate cooking, grab food from restaurants, and yes, eat meals at their parent's house. If he doesn't want to cook, why should he? Why is everybody so mad this man, who can obviously afford to eat out as much as he pleases, doesn't want to cook?!?! Insane.[/quote]

It’s not about the cooking. It’s about avoiding any kind of personal responsibility and off loading it onto his parents so that he can live a stress free, adolescent type of lifestyle.

No woman would want to marry this free loading man child.
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