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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I feel mine works well mostly, but I do feel transactional. Like at one point I gained weight, but never technically even overweight by BMI, but there was hell to pay. Meanwhile his BMI is over 30 (technically obese). I do nearly all the home and kid stuff. This seems to be the deal for the female. Not unhappy - but I do think this is the patriarchy! Our jobs are nearly equal in terms of hours, I make only a little bit less, and am 7 years younger.[/quote] Sigh. It's so easy to blame the patriarchy, when there's a much simpler explanation. "My obese husband have me hell when I gained a little weight. I also do all the house ans kid stuff. The system sucks!" Perhaps - but more importantly for you, your husband sucks. That's much more relevant than sociological concepts. [/quote] No kidding. What a tool that guy is.[/quote]
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