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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I honestly don't see how this is a red flag. We all know about people who get married too young and don't know what they're getting into. We probably all have boyfriends/girlfriends from high school/college that we thought we were super in love with but it turns out we really weren't. All kinds of people stay in unhappy marriages for decades, especially if they're confused about why they're unhappy.

Someone said above this indicates OP's boyfriend is not "taking responsibility" for his part in the end of his marriage. I don't see that at all. It looks like he did some self reflection and realized his feelings weren't what he thought they were.[/quote]
This. This is why people give such terrible advice on this forum. They read everything through their own distorted lens, they diagnose personality disorders from 3 sentences of an anonymous post, they assume all sorts of facts that aren’t true. It’s so ridiculous. OP, you know a lot more than anyone responding here. If you don’t know what it means, just keep talking and get to know him better. DCUM is good for what color should I paint the hallway, not things that really matter.[/quote]

I disagree.

I think you get lots of perspectives on DCUM which is a good thing.  You may not get THE answer, but then when you are talking about love there is no THE answer.

Better for the OP to view this topic from different perspectives and from men and women of different ages and experiences than to sit and ruminate about it in her own mind with limited perspective.  [b]The more info you have the better you are able to figure out what's going on.[/b][/quote]

Info?? More like opinions from 5 pages of varying life experiences. [/quote]

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