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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your sister sounds like she is really not in a mentally healthy place, but from what you have described it also sounds like you and others are pushing hard to be allowed to see the baby.  I think step one is to lay off on that.  As others have said, focus on asking sis how things are and top suggesting get togethers.  Its clear that she is not comfortable with that and all the pushback in the world is probably just going to make her more and more uncomfortable.  If anyone from your FOO is going to be talking to her about what is an appropriate level of risk, I'd say leave it to the pediatrician sister and everyone else back off (or maybe everyone back off, but if there must be a messenger on this, let it be the pediatrician).

BIL does need to insist on an evaluation for PPA/PPD.  Hopefully he will be successful in that.  
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Ped sister has tried to take on the messenger role. Other sister has deemed that all of us have bad judgment and engage in risky behaviors
Her dh has been fine going along with it to some degree, but he’s opened his eyes that it’s getting worse, not better
And frankly it’s now impacted him with regards to the family travel he wants to take [/quote]

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