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Reply to "transfer the house title to me or I'm leaving you"
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[quote=Anonymous]OP - I get it that you bough the house before marriage, but the way you are score keeping and not investing in a joint future says a lot about why your marriage failed. It was not just about the house - it is about your whole attitude regarding money, ownership, protecting your assets, etc. I married my husband in my late 30s with considerable assets. I paid the 20% DP on our first house, plus our wedding and 1/2 of my engagement ring. He came into marriage debt free but with little assets. His family is very generous with us though and he’ll get a sizable inheritance- hopefully not until we’re in our 60s. We don’t have a pre-nup, but we did talk about finances before we got married. I cannot imagine living in a house that was not mine, with a partner who made sure I understood it was not mine. It’s almost as if you went into marriage expecting it to fail. You didn’t even try to find a compromise that would make your wife feel like a valued, equal partner in the union. Frankly you sound like a jerk who cares more about money and winning than you care about your new ex-wife. I hope she meets a kind and wealthy husband who makes her feel welcome, safe, and valued in her own marriage. I hope you go to therapy to work out your issues. [/quote]
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