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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Divorce is an easy solution, fidelity, commitment, raising a family needs hard work. If you see people taking easy way out, you too want to leave and be single and date. [/quote]

This^.[/quote]

I feel the opposite.

Looking the other way to infidelity/helplessness/etc and living your life in fear of taking control of it is why people stay married.

There is no honor in being afraid to leave your spouse”.

Most women I know are not leaving and dating. They are leaving and committing to their family and work  in a way they never could because their helpless h sucked them of all their energy and resources.[/quote]

+1[/quote]

It’s easier to believe the man you want has a wife that is trapped then the fact he actively is doing the work day in and day out to prevent the woman he truly loves from leaving.  You have no idea what is going on in a long marriage— how it started, where it started or the kind of passion and deep love that was there.  It’s hard to see him fight so hard for someone when he didn’t for you.  So yeah- she is trapped  :roll: [/quote]

You can see the ones that have their own means getting out and the ones that don’t staying it’s clear they are trapped.

Nobody wants their old dusty husband. [/quote]

Old dusty husband? I guess if you married someone much older than may be but mot peoplr who married in their own age group.[/quote]

Yes but most divorced men are old. Yes, sorry, but objectively speaking 45 is old. Thining hair, poochy belly, no fashion sense, anxiety disorders.

[b] I have one divorced friend who we were trying to get to date, she is amazing. She said to us, her friends, no offense but if you even look objectively at your husbands. Take away, father of your children, built a life together, etc… very few, none actually are really f’able.

Even the great looking one in our group, runs marathons, works out, 6 pack abs at 50… his anxiety disorder .. the real reason he runs daily, it’s just too much to take on.[/b]

No thank you![/quote]

None are f’able… Your friend sounds hilarious!

Trying to think how this would shake out in our circle of friends. Thankfully the one I’d most want is my husband. But there are a few others who would definitely be fine. I see plenty of cute dads around. No pooches. [/quote]

See the cognitive Dissidence. If you were objective you would see it.[/quote]

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