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Reply to "I was so naive re marriage, career and kids "
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]There are a lot of men you have a similar attitude to you about parenthood and I'll say the same to you as I have said to them: if you don't want to be a parent, don't have a kid. But if you are a parent, you have to do that job or you're just a run-of-the-mill criminal in my book. I don't care what gender you are or how important you think your job is, if you chose to become a parent you need to go be a parent. If that means spending the money on high quality care when you can't be there, so be it. If it means scaling back at work so you can be there, so be it. But you can't sit there and complaint to me about how hard it is to be a parent when what you mean is "I can't believe this life changing shift in my responsibilities has impacted my career and social life." It's not some kind of secret. This is what parenthood is.[/quote] OP why does not the same thinking apply to my husband?[/quote]
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