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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If your spouse has ADHD and is working really hard to do his best and was super apologetic, then I would be pissed but I'd get over it. If your spouse is really just a jerk, then I'd be livid. But 99% of spouses aren't selfish jerks, they are just struggling. Help your DH out of love instead of attacking him. He doesn't want to be a jerk. [/quote] Why don’t we let Op opine on his response and follow up. She knows if he has negative coping mechanisms like being a jerk or lying or getting angry when he makes mistakes. I disagree with your 99% figure. There are ADHd people who are kind. And there are ADHd people who are jerks. Struggling and letting yourself or others down is no reason to be a jerk. Frankly his survival hinges on having a caretaker, so it’s in his best interest NOT to be a jerk. Bullying can only get you so far in a repeat game like a marriage. Unf kids really lock in the codependency and healthy functional adult. [/quote]
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