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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Was I a mail order bride ? I don’t know. I am Russian, met my exH online at 24, when he was 35 and already divorced once. He’s also Russian and said he just looked for someone of same culture. I was a lawyer in Moscow, and all my boyfriends were wealthy (oil, gas, legal, banking, security services “covering” businesses). I am 5.9 and was very good looking in my 20s.  I would say, my American online date was not the wealthiest date, but I fell for him because he was very driven. We got married within a year, I found legal job in DC right away and worked through our marriage. We had one child. He cheated on me with Serbian woman his age and we recently divorced. He was very controlling, old fashioned husband and not a very engaged dad. Liked sex a lot but got bored after 7 years or (needed toys). 
I just think he’s a womanizer and American women wouldn’t have tolerated this. I feel like my life was bulldozed all over and really want to move back to Moscow when my son finishes college. [/quote]

Married with in a year?  That is what stands out to me.  Was your motivation this person...getting out of moscow.......financial stability?   What led you to marry a foreigner thousands of miles away so so quickly?[/quote]

I mean, within a year since we began a serious relationship. We initially “dated” only online, he visited me several times. Then I went to study to Germany on a scholarship, and he transferred jobs from DC to my college town in Germany. We lived/co-habilitated for a year and then he proposed. We got married and moved back to DC. In total 1.5 years since we met online before officially being married. My motivation - I was in love, he was fun, we traveled a lot across Europe together and these were the best years in my life overall as I also got pregnant with our son in Germany. I never saw his house in DC, or cared where he worked- I would have moved with him to any country 
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