Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
Entertainment and Pop Culture
Reply to "What is the appeal of Glennon Doyle"
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I just finished untamed. You would not take me to be someone who would fan girl or love GD or her books. But I'm 37 with a 3 year old, an underemployed lazy husband, and I've had doubts about so many things for years in this marriage. I have suppressed my thoughts and bitten my tongue. I have stayed up doing things for my family while my husband lounges/sleeps in. I am a person who hates live laugh love mugs and #mombosswarrior culture. After reading untamed, I have found my voice. Or rather, rediscovered it. I have found the courage to start speaking up again about things that do not serve me. Dynamics that are unfair. I am no longer afraid to point out and address the truth, even if it makes people uncomfortable. This expression is corny, but after reading the book, I felt seen.[/quote] I'm really happy for you! [/quote] Thanks! Recent example from just this AM. My DH tried to scapegoat me for something. Details not important. But bottom line is that it was easier for him to blame me/pretend I was the reason He wasn't doing something. I called him out on it. Not in a rude or cruel way, but just stated matter of factly. You have the time ability and opportunity to do xyz action. You choose to allocate your time in other ways. I am not the reason xyz isn't getting done. You are the reason. I can cheer you on, but the individual action is up to you. In past times, I would have stayed quiet and let him vent. Whatever. Now, I speak up for myself. I say the truth. Even if it makes myself or him uncomfortable. I am breaking old patterns and ways of thinking.[/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics