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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]First, I think OP is the 22 year old fiancée. Second, I think what she perceives as shaming (or shamming as she likes to call it) is really just questioning this decision. Shaming someone means telling them that they are inherently bad as a person. My guess is that anything less than “OMG, that’s so wonderful. When can we begin showering you with gifts and attention?” is seen in OP’s eyes as shamming. It’s okay to question someone when they share about a major life decision. Mature people welcome that process. When you’re immature and perhaps lacking in confidence, you perceive any questioning of your decision as some sort of shaming. [/quote] Yes, the second point! [/quote]
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