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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am recently divorced 43 yo and I had a 16 year long marriage and one child. From my own experience, I would never compromise again just to have a family or a partner. I get a lot of adult communication at work. A family is my parents and kids: men come and go.

I am on the waitlist for adoption but won’t remarry to “compromise”. I am independently wealthy after the divorce ($4mm net worth). Wonder if all these women want marriage for financial stability as prime reason. [/quote]

So you got married at 27. So you actually have no idea what it's like to be single and mid 30s and looking at your fertility dwindle. [/quote]

I do know this from own experience: yes, I got married at 27 to the first one who proposed. I had fertility issues and we did an IVF. Yes, he happened to be successful and wealthy but at the same time with serious character flaws. I had back thoughts prior to wedding but did not cancel - I wanted to get pregnant ASAP

Girls, don’t get married to a “compromise”, when you see red flags or have back thoughts. This will only result in a bitter divorce with children involved. Get a donor and have a baby if your clock is ticking. A boyfriend or a husband can appear later in your life. Getting married and having kids are unrelated things. Marriage is a serious legal contract - you don’t want to give custody to your future kids to someone who was a “rushed” choice.

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