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In many ways the "classic" forms of dementia like Alzheimer's or Parkinson's are easier because there's a clear trajectory and a list of defined options.  Moderate dementia without a diagnosis or mental illness are so so hard, especially if [b]the person presents as normal long enough to get through a short interview.[/b]  There aren't legal mechanisms to intervene.  There often isn't universal family support to intervene.  [b]Yet the person can do a lot of harm to themselves and others[/b].  It's really hard.

[b]For examples, recall all the examples of elderly people driving through farmer's markets or the wrong way down streets, killing and injuring people.[/b]  In those cases I bet all should have had their license taken away sooner, but there wasn't the family will or a legal means to do so.[/quote]

This is exactly what our family is dealing with with my Dad right now.   My mom has more severe dementia, and he is the one responsible for her too (he hires help for her, but ultimately he is responsible and makes all decisions.)
I am terrified he will hurt or kill someone with his driving.[/quote]

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