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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]They don’t get therapy because they don’t see that they are part of the problem in their own misery, and often feel like being a victim gets them some kind of social leverage. I understand that being cheated on can be a very traumatic event to some people, but the choice to not heal and move on to real happiness is what baffles me. [/quote] This. But it's probably just a handful of women with too much time on their hands. They just show up in every thread because the whole world must know.[/quote] I find it odd to blame the victims. How about the nasty cheaters bragging about what crappy people they are.[b] To be fair we are all here.....[/quote] The woman recently bragging about blowing her AP in a parking garage over a hundred times. OMG. These cheaters are insane and disgusting. Who brags about that? I'm sure everyone calls her D@@ck breath behind her back, you know, like the security guys watching it on their camera and the co-workers that watch her get in and out of the car. Gross.[/quote] That was just an incel posting as a woman. Women don't do that, there's nothing to gain from it. [/quote] I'm not a bitter ex wife- but I must disagree with the BJ thing. My ex used to get BJs in a public park from his AP. Part of the psychology is that they like to feel forbidden and naughty so doing stuff like that excites them. She was also desperately in love with him so she would have done anything to get him. Once I found out exactly how gross he was I was DONE. I'm very happy to be divorced and I was able to heal from the trauma. It did take a while though b.c of my childhood issues but I got there. [/quote] Yes years ago there was a married male in our circle who openly stated his wife wouldn't give him BJ's so he would cheat to basically get a BJ. They are still married but I know there were other women throughout the years, sole purpose was to fill the sexual gap. There are definitely women that do that.[/quote] Yep. Someone blow with nothing in return. Some because they love it and many because they are looking to try and [b]get the guy to marry them and then will no longer blow.[/b][/quote] Ha ha ha yes! I'm PP and I'm sure that's what happened. And they have some kids now so he is trapped. The ironic thing is that I consider BJs part of foreplay and give every time. :lol:[/quote]
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