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[quote=Anonymous]I'm sorry, OP. I can see why divorce doesn't make sense for now in your mind. The only thing you can "fix" is your resentment, if that's possible. Dial back everything else for now -- don't do his laundry or clean his stuff/his side of the room, etc. Don't fill gas or change oil in his car. Don't cook -- just basic stuff like sandwiches or oven-ready meals for you and the kids. Switch to paper plates and plastic cutlery. No kids' activities or playdates (except for whatever your SN child needs). What would you do if you were sick and unable to do everything? Do that and be satisfied with it until you can make a bigger decision like divorce. [/quote]
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