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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Oh wow: found this in one of the comments on Femininiste:

I did some digging. it was quite easy to find out who the family is.
The young woman in question has a facebook page. on the page she complains that her “boyfriend is in jail”. which gives a whole new angle to the story, doesn’t it? this may have been the “older boyfriend” variety of statutory (romeo/juliet) rape and parents are just punishing her , while making a great case for their pro-life virtue.
You’ll note on the mother’s blog that she complains incessantly about how hard this child is to deal with, how glad she is when the child is away at juvie, how much she dreads her coming home.
I think she’d be quite happy for social services to permanently take her on. and it would be so much easier to make that case if daughter is pregnant

The young woman has a facebook page? Other posts (from the mother / author) about her daughter talks about how the daughter stole the family car and totalled it and went to juvenile delinquency center and the mother has been spending tons of time trying to have her daughter committed. She says "limited cognitive abilities." What the fuck? This sounds like a crazy, crazy lie and a horrible excuse for a person. Wow. [/quote]

The mother has several children, all adopted, all with special needs.

Sometimes the heartlessness on here scares me.

I suppose it is possible she made up the story, but since she is a real person with real children (how do you know her kids' names?  How do you know which child was involved?), it would be a quick and terrible lie.

I saw the comments on her blog.  Reading them made me believe evil is personal.  My God, I am so grateful the Internet was not all-powerful when I was sexually assaulted.[/quote]

OKay so you read this story and you think *I* am the evil one? Oh my gosh!

This young girl's own mother laments her difficulties with her "difficult" mentally ill daughter for ALLLLL the internet to see, specifically complaining that the authorities won't keep her committed and it's so much trouble to have her at home, for weeks, then "loses sight" of the girl for two days, and then when the girl has been found to have been brutally raped (for an extended period of time according to mom) what makes her want to pass out is the name of the conference center, the mother withholds important medication for her daughter and allows for the possibility that the brutal rape may result in pregnancy and a child (who will be trapped in this insane woman's house unless the authorities get involved, which I am having a hard time understanding how they would NOT) and you think I AM THE EVIL ONE? It is so scary to me that there are people like this woman, and people like you to defend her, out there in this world.

I'm not talking about the mom's decision on behalf of her daughter, per se. Let's just pretend I think it's totally true and went down exactly as she says. Even so, how the hell does this mother, in good conscience, BLOG ABOUT HER DAUGHTERS RAPE as soon as she gets home from the clinic, instead of taking her daughter to the hospital, which the mom says was recommended by the clinic based on the extent of her injuries? And then, days later, she is writing carefree blogs about getting manicures?!?!

if you think the mother did the right thing, why don't you provide us with your mother's name along with other identifying details that will help us to determine who you are? Because that is exactly what the mother did in this instance. She whored out her daughter's rape story to advance her political and religious ideology and to pat herself on the back for "doing the right thing." Do you have a relationship with Jesus? And if so, do you really, really think this is what He would want?

Fine, that mother has the right to make certain decisions for her child (IF this story is true, and IF the child is as severely disabled as the mother seems to suggest, which clearly conflicts with pretty readily available information that suggests the girl is troubled, yes, and maybe has mental illness but is far from having a "limited cognitive abilities" which suggest a much more severe condition!

It is simply stunning to me that someone like this woman was ever allowed to adopt. God, how scary. Honestly she is an argument FOR abortion; on the one hand, you prevent a child from developing from a fetus. On the other hand, you could adopt, but then consider the alternative could be your offspring, once alive, would be brought up in an abusive home with parents who brag about their abusive and scary parenting on the internet, and practically live-blog your violent rape. How do people like this pass adoption screening? I thought it was hard to adopt? I thought there were background and mental health checks for prospective adoptive parents?

This blog has really, really upset me. This poor young girl. My heart goes out to her and I hope she escapes this abusive situation and this abusive mother as soon as possible. I'm praying that the authorities get involved.

Oh, and by the way? I am pro-life!!! [/quote]

Well, you should be very upset with the Pro-Life machine that fabricated this story. [/quote]

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