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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The only people I know well who don't have kids are women who aged out of having them prior to finding the right relationship. They regret that they didn't have kids, but I suppose feel that it was out of their hands. They more generally regret how their lives turned out. I personally tried to have kids as a single mother. Although it was not successful, I am very glad that I tried (despite the expense and toll it took on my life). I think that I would regret it if I hadn't. [/quote] I would have been such a person. Instead I married the wrong person had a kid and divorced. It’s my second-worst-case scenario, worst being alone and childless. I never wanted to be a single mother but he was extremely abusive.[/quote] PP here. I love it when divorced moms who used to be married to abusers tell me that I’m living their worst nightmare lol. I’ve never regretted not marrying the wrong man for the sake of having children. (I have several friends who did that. Some are still married, most aren’t; none are very happy). I do regret that my efforts to conceive weren’t successful but I suppose childlessness would’ve been my end result either way. I think everyone regrets certain things but ultimately they’re futile. [/quote]
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