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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My boyfriend and I are planning on getting engaged and we have been discussing weddings. He wants to get married in a big ceremony, but I want a small ceremony with just immediate family and some friends. I do not want to invite extended family because they’re drama and ghetto. He thinks I should make an exception this one time and invite everyone. I don’t want to and have been thinking of just getting married at the courthouse with no wedding. How can we come to a compromise? [/quote]

It doesn’t matter if extended family is drama and ghetto or aloof and wealthy snob, what matters is your emotional connection with them. If you want your extended family there then invite, if not then don’t. It’s a day to promise to love and honor each other in presence of people who are important in your life, if someone isn’t then you aren’t obliged to include them. Are they from his side of the family and important to him? If so then you may want to be gracious and let him invite them. It’s his wedding too.[/quote]

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