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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My boyfriend and I are planning on getting engaged and we have been discussing weddings. He wants to get married in a big ceremony, but I want a small ceremony with just immediate family and some friends. I do not want to invite extended family because they’re drama and ghetto. He thinks I should make an exception this one time and invite everyone. I don’t want to and have been thinking of just getting married at the courthouse with no wedding. How can we come to a compromise? [/quote]

First put things in perspective, wedding is one day and marriage is long term. A happy marriage is what you two should be focusing on and not letting one day take over you real plan. Second, assign a realistic dollar amount for wedding day, something you can easily afford in cash. Third, work as a team and find how this can be a happy day for both of you, do some give and take to find a good solution. If something is too important for one person then other let’s them have that and other person should do the same for something else. Use wedding as a fun project to learn to work together. [/quote]

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