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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here. I have been with him for a quarter of a century.  I can tell you he is very confident.  So much so that it pisses me off. He thinks he can do anything.  He thinks he is great looking (he is decent  but he over inflates his looks). Physically he thinks he is so ao strong. Maybe if you have not dealt with  this....you wouldn't understand.

If he was insecure, I would have picked up on it.

When other men talk to me...it's as if he thinks they wouldn't stand a chance because he is so much better [/quote]

Op, I am like your DH. Tall, attractive (I probably think i am better looking than I am 😃). It doesn't bother me if my wife talks with other men or goes out with them solo. I trust her and I definitely have the "she isn't doing better than me" attitude.

There are a lot of insecure incels on here projecting on your DH and guys like me. We just aren't the jealous type. And it's not necessarily a great trait, I have had many women who I have dated tell me it feels like I don't care if they stay or go. The truth is, of course I love my wife but I would be fine on the dating market if single. That's probably the vibe your DH gives. Some women find it sexy, others feel the need to be possessed. We are not for everyone[/quote]

OP here. Yes...this is exactly like my husband.

Curious, does your wife ever get jealous? [/quote]

I don't know if jealous is the word as much as threatened. She probably picks up on women hitting on me faster than I do and can get pissy or protective. But she is not controlling and if I am out on guys night till 2 am it's not an issue.

As for me, and maybe your DH, he absolutely loves you but is probably not wired like those romance novel heroines who would burn a city down to be with you but would give you a kidney, if they makes sense.

Perhaps it's a combination of practical that there is no such thing as the one and confidence they can find another.

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OP here. This makes total sense. How do you feel when she gets jealous/ threatened? Do you find it flattering or do you not understand it.[/quote]

I understand it but I do not find it flattering. I would not want to be married to someone controlling or insecure about our relationship.

If she wants to show flattering behavior, the bedroom is the place for that.[/quote]

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