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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]I have no interest in dating a man with kids. I am not looking for a commitment. I am looking for someone I can see once a week for awhile until it runs its course (6 months to a year or more is ideal). A man with kids is more likely to want to meet my kids and blend lives—I am not interested. I just need someone who can say “yes, let’s meet at x time and x date” and I need to know 24 hours in advance in case I need a sitter that day. All that is required is someone who can plan a little better. That’s it.[/quote]

I don't know why would any man want to date you. You are physically, mentally and emotionally unavailable and no, those small windows in your rigid schedule do not count.
I'm a woman.[/quote]

I had a boyfriend most of last year. It was not an issue. He could confirm plans. We met once or twice a week. It was fine. [/quote]

I believe it happened once. But seems like you're looking for someone who'd fit your schedule and your exact terms; when you're not offering much, except your very limited company.
Men your age who are not married are playing the field and have more opportunities on the dating market than a woman with a kid.
Maybe you need to look someone older, who is into companionship only.[/quote]

OP here again: [b]And I literally had all weekend free. I said that. No response[/b]. My company is not that limited. I need the courtesy of someone respecting my time. That goes for anyone dating.[/quote]

I get it. But that's exactly what I'm saying - he already knows it's not a committed relationship and he's simultaneously making plans with others. Yes, it would be nice if he responded to be polite, but why would he, practically speaking. It's better for him to have a couple of potential options in the air.[/quote]

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