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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]I have no interest in dating a man with kids. I am not looking for a commitment. I am looking for someone I can see once a week for awhile until it runs its course (6 months to a year or more is ideal). A man with kids is more likely to want to meet my kids and blend lives—I am not interested. I just need someone who can say “yes, let’s meet at x time and x date” and I need to know 24 hours in advance in case I need a sitter that day. All that is required is someone who can plan a little better. That’s it.[/quote]

I don't know why would any man want to date you. You are physically, mentally and emotionally unavailable and no, those small windows in your rigid schedule do not count.
I'm a woman.[/quote]

I had a boyfriend most of last year. It was not an issue. He could confirm plans. We met once or twice a week. It was fine. [/quote]

I believe it happened once. But seems like you're looking for someone who'd fit your schedule and your exact terms; when you're not offering much, except your very limited company.
Men your age who are not married are playing the field and have more opportunities on the dating market than a woman with a kid.
Maybe you need to look someone older, who is into companionship only.[/quote]

What? All I am asking for is for someone to tell me a date/time they can meet. That is it. I am confused why you think this. Even single people don't frequently meet up the day off unless they have already agreed on a plan. People make other plans if someone does not confirm they are meeting. I am flexible if someone says when they can meet--the problem is he is not saying WHEN he can meet...I am not waiting around for someone at the last minute. If you text me Friday night, I am not meeting you Friday night. I already have plans by then. This has nothing to do with a kid. If I have a plan to meet someone on Thursday night, they should be able to confirm a time before 8 p.m. I am not rigid. I expect respect for my time. This has nothing to do with having a kid at all. He has a problem confirming plans. This has not been an issue for me dating with kids or when I was single many many years ago either. [/quote]

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