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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op what are you like? How old are you? Where do you live? [/quote]

I’m 31F, white, fit, living in DC working as a fed.[/quote]

[b]Did you have umc track boys dating you in hs, college or in your twenties?
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What are the types of guys you got from 16-30?

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Lots of different types. I did go through a bad boy phase in college for a bit but I’ve dated the introverted nerdy guys as well. [/quote]

So basically UMC-tracked boys did not date you and you yourself are not UMC-tracked?

I think that certain type of guys are UMC-tracked and good DH material. They also do not have a protector mentality and are  attracted to low-drama, UMC-tracked, emotionally stable, mature, good looking and healthy girls. It may sound very vanilla but that's the truth.   [/quote]

Op does not sound like she grew up umc, otherwise she would also lean on her[b] childhood or parental network [/b]as well.

Are you trying to jump up above your station op? [/quote]
It's possible OP does not live where she grew up. You make it sound like all the UMC are inbred like the Royals. [/quote]

No, but if you grew up in a tier 1 or 2 city in a umc setting, attend a university popular with your peers, even if you move to a completely new city far away you end up in similar social circles.

People who say grow up in Seattle, attend lakeside, go to vassar, then move to dc are not suddenly finding themselves completely lost and wondering where “their people” are.

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But PP mentions parental and childhood networks which would be wherever she grew up which may not be where she currently lives, not current networks of friends or coworkers.  [/quote]

Parental and childhood networks are relevant because if you are “a catch” when you go back home for the holidays, your family and friends will try to set you up with eligible peers even if they are in a different tier 1/2 city.

In 2021 dating is geographically broad but narrow in class. It’s the opposite of even as late as the 90s.

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Do you really think that desirable men want to date someone a flight of 4 hour drive away and not have regular sex just because Aunt Larla can vouch for their background? [/quote]

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