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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I do think it’s slim pickings after 30. My friends that married in their mid 30s even had dated for years before. Are you open to divorced dads or men with kids? [/quote]
Thanks for the anecdote. The average age for a first time marriage in DC is 33. [/quote]

Right, but what is the average age of when: 1. people under 40, 2. who have kids and a 3. house in an inner ring desirable neighborhood — meet their spouses for the first time?

As other posters are saying, this happens before 31 most of the time.[/quote]
You're throwing in variables like kids and homeownership now. You can be UMC have no kids or ever want them and also never own a single family house. What exactly do you mean by desirable neighborhood? High median home price? Good public schools?[/quote]

The variables are — let’s be honest — the desired “end states” of people like op . It is the end goal they are gunning for.

It is the reason why they are asking about a certain type or mold of partner — it’s to maximize their chances of obtaining a certain lifestyle/ life goals.

So it reasons to work backwards from the goal to see what the commonalities are of people in your generation that achieved the goal.
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