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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This entire thread refutes the usual DCUM response of "no 20 something is going to be interested in a 30+/40+ year old man."[/quote]

Yeah, nice try. With one or two exceptions, all of those young people grew up to see those older men for the predators they were. [/quote]

again, more than just one or two and there are likely so many more women who are remaining in the shadows so as to avoid the nastiness from people like you.[/quote]

You don't get it. Yes, of course there are women interested in older men. But when it comes time to settling down, 99% of the women here wrote that they married someone more appropriate in age for them. Older men also come with children and prior wives. For those of us growing up in the 80s and 90s with divorced parents, we know to stay away from all this drama. In summary, in pursuing young women, a younger cute guy with great earning potential has the best picks and an older man with so so income and prior emotional baggage and family responsibilities the worst. [/quote]

you're deflecting and changing the issue.  no one had been talking about marriage - you are the one who brought this up.  now you are putting qualifiers into the mix too.  no one is denying that the older guys could have been creeps either but that is not the point, so just stop deflecting and making up excuses to fit your own narrative.

the basic issue is that, and contrary to your belief, there are more examples of younger women dating older men than you would care to believe.  there are real facts and then there are alternative facts (or just made up sh*t to support an argument).[/quote]

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