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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wife cheated and had a baby with an ex that she hooked up with while visiting her parents for Christmas last year.
She kept the baby and neither one of them say they want to be together. I filed for divorce shortly after the baby was born.
My parents knew what was up, but I don't think her parents know/believe what happened. I think they are willfully playing ignorant.
She told her parents that the child was from a "donor."

She has a pretty big social media following (insta, youtube, etc.) and she went on social to announce the divorce and has been posting about how hard it is to be a single mother but how she is being strong for the baby because he is the most important thing.

She didn't directly say anything bad about me; however, all the commenters assumed I was at fault and they have made up all the various scenarios about how I must have been... abusive, or cheated, or controlling, etc. and how she is better off without me... There are people donating money to her because she has implied that she doesn't have any help to support herself. She hasn't deleted any of those sorts of comments. She leaves them up and it just becomes given that I'm wrong and she is a victim.

I don't like being vilified  and I don't want all the rumors hanging around about me.

Should I post the txt messages and pictures I have that show what she was up to??[/quote]

Don’t be stupid OP, chalk it up as a life experience and move on. Her social media following will only grow larger as people will want to follow her to hear about the angry husband. Similar situation backfired on a friend. He encouraged his wife to “date” outside their marriage bringing men and women into their marital home for threesomes with him.

When her “dating” life became became too much for him to handle, he cried foul and told her he wanted a divorce. He then filed for divorce claiming adultery. He told everyone he could that his wife ‘cheated’ for years and he was divorcing her. He posted on every social media platform that she was a cheater and cheated on him. He thought he was Mr Slick, telling everyone and anyone that would listen. That was until an attorney heard him boasting about it and contacted his wife.

That attorney convinced his wife to press slander charges against her husband, followed by assault and sex offender charges. She claimed he forced sex upon her without consent, photographed and videotaped her having sex with others without her knowledge or consent.

Turns out, she was awarded the divorce, a healthy $5k/month alimony and boisterous husband was charged with multiple charges of assault. Her attorney reconsidered the sex offender charges as that would had drastic financial implications on his clients alimony with minimum sentencing of ten years if convicted. He was ordered to pay all lawyers fees and court costs, and was given a three year sentence with all but twelve months suspended and five years supervised probation. He’s out of pocket $100k at his sentencing for twelve months alimony paid upfront into an escrow account, attorney fees and court costs.

Be careful what you wish for. This husband thought he had the upper hand, that is until someone smarter than him spoke with his soon to be ex-wife, and look who had the tables turned on him.

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