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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm not into this level of clinginess.

In my experience, men don't have the kinds of social connections that women do, so as soon as they meet a woman, even it's been one date, and often even in the pre-dating phase if you've met online, they're texting all the time, nattering on about what they had for lunch, what they're doing at the gym, etc. I've had guys I literally just met texting me good morning, sending me photos of their dinner, sending me videos of them at the gym, asking me what I'm doing all the time, texting me good night. It's not flattering and not a sign that they're interested. It's a sign that they have no one to talk to and/or can't bear silence. [/quote]

I have a different viewpoint on this - also a woman and always confused when a guy, who I may not even have met yet or only talked to on the phone starts sending daily good morning texts, photos of his kids, the status of his home improvement, pooh bear greeting cards (yes, had those, not my thing).
Like we are in a relationship already?!? But they make no efforts to create a relationship with me ... I am just a stand-in, a fantasy.  Usually, they are not over the ex-wife etc. and are not emotionally available.  So not clingy but not ready to date either.  But your point is good too, PP  :D  [/quote]

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