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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He has some issues that are the root cause. Depression, addiction, porn, whatever, but look into it. [/quote]

I'm a marriage and family therapist and surprised only one person has brought this up. OP he sounds like he has me that health issues going on. Please start with an evaluation first and foremost. Good luck. [/quote]
+1. Shocked at how people just assume he’s a lazy, bad human. I believe nobody is lazy, they are always just struggling with something. I’ve had ADHD paralysis a lot and so much of my life makes sense since diagnosis. I can finally stop hating myself. OP, you don’t leave when your partner is depressed. He’s sick and he needs help. It’s hard, yes, but I can’t imagine jumping to divorce and doing that to your kids over this. Lean in with love, not blame. It’s not easy because you’ve been shouldering everything for so long. But your DH has had the heavy burden of depression, self loathing, feelings of worthlessness, and possibly addiction for this time too. Believe me, he hates himself right now. [/quote]

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