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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]There are several people here blaming you.  This is NOT your fault.

I've been in your shoes.  I tried most of the things suggested in this thread.  It never got better.  My kids are now teens and they have almost no relationship with their dad.  We're divorcing.

I think the worst part was that when his parents visited he was awesome.  He did so much around the house and he was engaging.  The moment they left, he would turn back into an unhelpful person who ignored us.  [/quote]

OP absolutely does play a role in this.

Every woman I know in a situation like this is a giant enabler and control freak.

No way in heck I would put up with what OP is enabling.  Same with any other sane woman.  I would simply leave for work in the morning and let him handle everything.  I wouldn’t make dinner at night, do dishes or really do anything.  No one put a gun to OP’s head and forced her to do everything.  She did it voluntarily and now people like you are saying she’s not at fault.  Really????  Men are going to continue to take advantage of unpaid labor as long as women like OP keep providing it.

OP thought a post about taking a trip to Miami was FUNNY.  Really!  I would have been gone so long ago.  My life matters and I refuse to do everything at home and work a job while my man child watches TV.  [/quote]

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