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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]LOL I'm an EFM and I had to reread the post to make sure it wasn't my husband posting because it sounds like something he would write about me (I don't think it is- too many details don't align). Anyway OP, just get the divorce. Idk why she's even visiting you. Since she has her own career and doesn't come to post with you for years, isn't on your orders etc, she clearly checked out years ago. Heck I'm surprised she hasn't divorced you first given the length of the marriage and I assume your kids are grown (only reasons I am still staying in my own marriage). The way you write your post along with things my husband has said to me make me wonder if the FSOs just sit around all day at work bashing their wives who've ironically been the ones to make tremendous personal sacrifices over the course of the FSO's spouse's employment. [/quote]

"Since she has her own career... she is clearly checked out years ago?"
really?
Not the OP's wife, but an EFM with a healthy career... AND a healthy marriage... despite the odds. I have at times lived apart from my husband (when everyone assumes we are separated). We aren't.  There are a lot of good reasons outside of a spouse being checked out to not live together for years under the circumstances, including the wife having a career.[/quote]

PP again... I am really hoping the bolded above, while a true quote, was written too quickly (and that the poster was implying that "She has her own career, and SINCE she doesn't come to post with you, etc." If not, this is the life many post-1950s EFMs must deal with.[/quote]

I clearly meant it appears OPs wife is doing her own thing independent of OP. That includes having a career, AND not coming to post AND not on OPs orders AND it sounds like they hate each other. [/quote]

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