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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Female friend, they don't see each other regularly usually just once a year or every other year if that when  the old high school friends meet up

You have never had an issue with DH before or suspected anything  inappropriate between them.

DH confesses to you. They did not sleep together more like making out and heavy petting. They had been drinking. DH is apologetic and horrified at his own behavior. Has already removed her from his phone and social media.

You have 2 kids and 1 on the way.[/quote]

Husbands tend to cheat when wife is pregnant. They regress to their insecure teen selves, wonder what life will be like having to be a real man with a real family for the rest of their (possibly miserable) life.

We just pretend we don't see if, and when they confess, we always think it's the first time and will never happen again, because it is much easier and bearable this way.

I pity particularly the second wife (when she's the one he cheated on the first). He will do it again, and again, and again... and the second wife in this case deserves it.

Men will be little boys, who never grow u.  My advice: pretend you don't see it, if that's what is best for you and your family. Have your own escapades to compensate for it, if you must.

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I think men cheat at this stage from a combination of it's when men are in their prime (early to late 30s), women hit on them a lot and the marital sex life plummets during little babies. Not saying it's right, obviously cheating shouldn't happen.

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