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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I only want to be mom friends with moms who are into their kids. So no I would not be friends with a sahm who had a nanny. [/quote] You’re too stupid to be friends with, PP. SAHMs with nannies are generally very into their children or else they wouldn’t spend the money. They’d just suck at it like you. [/quote] If PP is stupid then you are as well. Having a nanny or not having a nanny is usually a function of your finances, not of how much you love your children.[/quote] No, actually not. It’s a function of priorities. NP here. Some parents sacrifice for a qualified nanny and stay completely involved as SAHPs. Definitely a question of priorities the vast majority of the time. How many of the mommy-martyrs like PP, let their kids watch hours of TV in their overpriced McMansions in the suburbs rather then get educated help? My SAHM friend with two kids and a full time nanny lives in a condo and her kids have never seen TV. Her four year old is reading and both kids understand and speak French (nanny) as well as have huge vocabularies thanks to mom. [/quote] You’re ridiculous if you think there’s only one good way to raise a child. There are cons to having too much adult attention as well. Not saying one should let their kids watch hours of TV, but at four I think letting a kid play independently is more important than teaching to read so you can brag to your friends [/quote] I guess your kids weren’t early readers, PP. The best way to raise a child is with love and attention. If you as a parent choose to accomplish that with help, more power to you. I’m tired of the mommy-martyrs too. [/quote]
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