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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP again. 16:01 that is interesting. I have to say it’s something I have wondered about, really since he was tiny. He has always been challenging. I was extremely anxious during my pregnancy with him due to a previous neonatal full term loss and worry that he was bathed in sadness hormones in utero. May I ask how the ASD diagnosis helped? I wonder if it’s something I should push for again.[/quote]

OP, gently, please let this go. Gently chase it away. You did not cause your son's issues by mourning the loss of your older child.

My kids with disabilities are teens now, and if there is one thing I can say from my journey: disability can come to any family, at any time, for any reason. It is tempting to look for reasons, but honestly, as parents we are nearly always wrong; disability is complex, multivariate, and usually unexplainable.

You've endured a horrific loss, and I am so sorry. You can set down the burden of blaming yourself for your DS's struggles. Please let it go. What I see from your posts is a dedicated, caring mother who is fighting for a little boy who is struggling. It is okay to let go of your worries about your pregnancy.[/quote]

Thank you for saying these kind words. I truly appreciate it. [/quote]

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