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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So on behalf of a friend I am so annoyed. Her DH ran off with a subordinate at work (they all work at the same place); the subordinate was also married with kids (he has two with my friend). The two cheaters both divorced and are now together and it has been going on for a total of four years, on and off, with divorce just final 3m ago. Meanwhile cheaters are very happy, no one seems to know or care that they were affair partners, [b]and my friend who was so sweet and lovely is bitter angry and devastated[/b]. Not the way things usually turn out if you listen to the people on this board who tell you the APs never wind up together or happy. It’s annoying.[/quote]

She needs to accept her situation, work on her bitterness and let go.  It was not her fault.  If she's going to hold to bitterness towards her ex she will never be happy.  She is drinking poison.  Let go. [/quote]

How much do you want to be that the situation OP describes is another sexless marriage?  The plot twist here is that the husband didn't just put up with it.[/quote]

Then the husband should have grown a pair and left before finding a new partner. But he didn’t, because he lacks integrity. It’s really just that black and white. [/quote]

Doubtful.  The most painful and lasting/hard to get over betrayals are the ones where the wife/husband never saw it coming--because they were 'happy marriages', still having sex.  Those are brutal and so psychologically damaging.

The ones that are severely disconnected, spouses don't really like each other or have sex anymore--are much less surprising, not a total and complete shock.[/quote]

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