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[quote=Anonymous]44F. I think it's waned as I've been with my spouse longer. I can easily get excited thinking about someone new. My spouse is amazing and great in bed, but, you know, it's been over a decade. I get high drive the week around ovulation, but then I have zero desire unless it's somehow piqued by someone new in my orbit. I'm concerned that post menopause, I will have zero drive. As with SSRIs, I refuse to go back on hormonal birth control because that totally killed my drive even when I was in my 20s. So much for women is situational. If we have time to care for ourselves and feel sexy, if our partner is kind and contributes, if we make time to talk and go on dates, then the drive is there (barring medical issues). But when I'm stressed, sleep deprived, and my spouse snipes at me for something then you can forget it, bub.[/quote]
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