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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]They didn’t tell her all the way up to the birth? Surprise, we had a baby?

I’d be pissed too. Not shocking she’s taking it out by ignoring the baby, but she’ll probably come around. It’s just so new. Hopefully you’re validating her feelings that it was wrong for her dad and stepmom to keep it from her, because it was.[/quote]

OP here yes they video called from the hospital and said here's your sister oh and we got married. My DD hasn't been all that close to her dad ever. They get along just fine but it's more of a let's do fun things rather than have a deep meaningful relationship.[/quote]

Then he’s reaping what he sowed and I would tell him as such. It’s on him and the stepmom to fix this and they should start with a sincere apology to your DD for keeping it from her. Your job is to validate your DD’s feelings whatever they may be. Hopefully no one is forcing her to spend time at their house with the baby. [/quote]

OP here I did raise this with my ex and he said he tried calling her for her months and she didn't answer calls just messages back. She is a typical teenager. I used to remind her to take his calls but she was always busy with friends and a new boyfriend. So talking to Dad wasn't a priority. [/quote]

This would have been an important thing to put in your OP -- your DD can't be mad if he TRIED to tell her. How would she have felt if he just texted her "we got married" and "we're having a baby"?[/quote]

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