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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Don’t listen to those people. I sleep trained two kids and they are fine. First at 4 months and second at 8 weeks. One is an infant and one is a toddler. Both sweet angels.

I have a SIL who never sleep trained, did co-sleeping, baby wore. Guess who is always frazzled and has clingy kids vs who is happy? Her kids are so hard to get along with because they do nothing but whine and cry every time we get together. She constantly complains how exhausted she is but refuses to do anything about it. I’m over here very happy. Whenever she gives advice or says things, I just silently laugh and nod along because I know I’m much happier than she even though she thinks what I did was barbaric and cruel. [/quote]

You have a toddler and an infant. We will see how your kids behave as they grow. I’d hardly call you an expert on motherhood. How long have you been doing this —two and a half years? Take a seat.[/quote]

PP here. My family has sleep trained all babies for over two decades and they are all fine. Many are high achieving kids and young adults. Most of us were sleep trained. I don’t want to raise kids who can’t cope with life. Too many young “ adults” these days can’t cope with simple things. I want to raise independent kids who don’t need to be coddled. Many attachment parenting people I know have bratty kids who can’t sleep and need to breastfeed every two minutes because they are “ sad”. I will do it my way. [/quote]

I also want what you want, but I never thought that letting my 8 week old baby cry himself to sleep would achieve that…[/quote]

You want it, I go it. I just put the work in and you’re still rocking your kid to sleep or putting them on the boob to fall asleep. [/quote]

You are delusional… my kids were traveling internationally alone at 5 and 6 years old. My kids are the most independent kids in their classes and FYI I only breastfed for 6 months..[/quote]

If this is true, you’re a bad mother. I would have turned you into services if I knew you. What kind of parent let’s their kid fly alone at 5 and 6 years old? You sound irresponsible. [/quote]

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