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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I am a parent with full custody 20 years down the road from where you are. I know you don’t want to hear this, but I look back now and realize that choosing to have a baby (and it was a “choice” even though initially it was an “accident”) was a very selfish act. Over the last 20 years my kids have been through a lot of pain due to their crappy unreliable Dad. They are great kids but sometimes make some not so great choices that are driven in part by their difficult family situation. I love them but I wish I had done better by them by not birthing them into such a crappy situation. IMO, judging myself, it would have been a more adult decision to terminate the accidental pregnancy and either work to find a stable, healthy partner or set myself up to be a single mom w/ a donor father. Either of thise situations would have been more fair to kids. [/quote]
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