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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am doing it alone with an abusive ex who only shows up when he wants. He makes a lot of money but child support is very minimal bc I also work. The child is wonderful but if I could go back in time I would probably make different choices. If you want a child on your own I would do it with a donor rather than bringing a child into the world with the knowledge that at least one of his parents did not want him and/or is a total jerk. OP no matter how much help you think you will have it is NOT the same as a partner; children also seriously adversely affect your ability to work and earn especially if alone; and if you are young enough I would seriously think about terminating and starting over after getting help for whatever issues have been preventing you from pursuing or finding partnership. Having a child is very likely to foreclose that potentially very rewarding opportunity.[/quote] +1. How old are you? Why have a kid with a jerk when you don't have to. This is not your last chance to have a baby, but it is your last chance to get rid of this guy forever.[/quote] My guess is 30's something. It's always an "accident" then.[/quote]
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