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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think it's a class issue.  I have a graduate degree from a fancy school and grew up in a wealthy area, so I know a lot of UMC folks pretty well.  But, my parents did not go to college, worked blue collar jobs, and were not into the whole UMC social scene.  As a result, I know lots of people who are not "well educated" but read plenty, have diverse interests, and can hold their own in an intellectual conversation.  They just did not go to college and do not work professional jobs.  I also know lots of UMC women who would never consider dating any of those people, because they are not "well educated."  The women will say it's about "ability to hold a conversation," but either they are ignorant or they are not being honest; plenty of these folks can hold a conversation.  Instead, it really seems that they want someone who will fit in with their family and friends and is not too different.  This is a class issue.[/quote]

[b]A degree is like a form of insurance.[/b]

If you are blue collar and the economy turns, you lose a job, etc. it’s harder to find work.  Even Starbucks baristas have college degrees.

If you have a college degree it helps and if you have a graduate or professional degree it’s even more insurance (unless your loan debt is outrageous ;) ).

It’s a tribe.  Are you comfortable in a crowd with guys friends that didn’t finish high school or go to college and likely their girlfriends/wives too?  I dated a few guys in 20s who never went to college and the women and crowd they hung out with I did not have much in common.

My husband came from a blue collar neighborhood, grew up very poor but got $ to go to a top university, speaks 3 languages fluently is well-read, Renaissance man that travels extensively.  We can from different worlds.[/quote]

Not always.

Remember in the 80's, when shallow women wanted to marry lawyers? Still true, it depends what profession is "trendy", I suppose.

I know lawyers who have been unemployed for years, during their career.  I have also known engineers who have been unemployed for years, during their career. And so on.

Builders? Tradespeople?  Can always find a job, they are always needed, there is never a glut, IME.  THAT is insurance.

Unemployment knows no bounds. A HYPSM degree seems like insurance, but it really is not, IME.[/quote]

True dat[/quote]

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