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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. I'm a man and my spouse is woman. A highly intelliget, highly educated (Ivy undergrad and grad) woman but I'm losing my mind. It's been like this for years but I lost it this morning over a half dozen things we needed and neither had time to clean up. Then she played victim that I was upset by a problem she caused that affected me and our kids.[/quote]same here but different genders. Weekends are the worst. My spouse has some Dx, not that they agree with the symptoms, Dx or what to do about it. I feel like I ruined my life and the life of my kids w this marriage and person. [/quote] Mine is also “successful” at work in a high paying technical field. He bullies those under him. He gaslights them into thinking his mistakes are their mistakes, a la “of course I told you that!” The power and money really go to their heads that they are great so must not be sukking anywhere in life. Lots of lies and lies of omission. Their disorders are coped with with narcissism. She’s quite possibly really fight you in court. For no reason other than her ego, not the children’s health or safety or care. Have you documented any accidents or is she never with the kids solo?[/quote] Maybe his behavior got him his high paying status, which is depressing. [/quote]
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